Living with our Expectations:

When we first meet a person, consciously or unconsciously we construct an image of that person in our minds. From there we reflect our firm belief on the first impression thing. Those who deny this theory, also construct their image in the minds of others as a person with trust issues.

We human beings are very impatient beings. We never get to know a person really and assume their character and personality, we grew expectations for them, we want them to act accordingly, and mold their personalities through our likings. And if they fail to do it, we impose the term betrayer on them. How absurd is this thing!

Some people say that expectations keep a relationship alive and healthy. And it’s okay to expect, it gives us hope, which creates a positive impact on our living. But with these expectations, we also need to develop a trait of flexibility.

 What I mean by being flexible is that if a person doesn’t fulfill our expectations then we should accept them, love them with their flaws.

Another thing is Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Flexibility and empathy goes hand in hand. If we accept a person with its flaws, we also understand its feeling and insecurities. We won’t pass a judgement, we will stand in their shoes and realize the situation they are currently dealing with.

When we start a relationship with someone, It could be anyone; your friends, your family, and spouses. We need to implement the principles of flexibility and empathy in our practical life.

If we humans, become Flexible and empathetic while dealing with others, we can outshine among many of our peers and lead our life successfully.

We need good listeners, more than good speakers.

We do think that if we wanted to be loved and respected we must be a good speaker, that one who could beat up anyone in an argument, that one who knows the most interesting stories and facts. But do we really have to become that one? Honestly consider this fact that how many of us admire the good speakers of our social circle. We think that the person who is a great conversationalist can be a narcissistic one, a boastful one, that one who is too arrogant to let anyone speak.

Lets come on the second condition. If we meet a good listener, we get mostly comfortable with him because he lets us reveal ourselves in every possible way, you get a sense of relief and self esteem with him. Even he won’t speak a word about himself, we already like them because they let us construct a good image of ourselves. Note that point ourselves

A good listener has to sacrifice his instinct of self-love for sometime while mingling with other because in result he gets that importance from others which he thought of getting it by speaking.

The Importance Of Career Counseling:
Do any of us have ever wondered that so many people around us including us are somehow conflicted about our future career? Approaching a career counselor is essential when you are not sure about choosing a suitable career option. Selecting a career option determines your course of life. Career counselors, by their correct and virtuous guidance and helps us in making complex decisions and facing difficult situations of the career world. Selection of the right career is one of the most important and life-changing decisions of a student. We people should realize our potentials and interests, to serve our society on respectable terms. A person must have aims in his life to live it purposefully. Nowadays, our youth suffers from lack of awareness to themselves which leads them to be confused while deciding a life goal. To solve these problems, career counseling helps us to cope with these problems.
Career counseling is a process that helps us to know and understand ourselves and the world of work to make the career, educational, and life decisions. Career counseling will help today’s youth to become aware themselves of their strengths, weaknesses, interests, passions, personality, desires, educational possibilities and abilities in a broad perspective, so to plan their career according to their personal beliefs and benefits.
In Career counseling, a person goes through various assessment and personality tests to analyze their capabilities, the counselors help the students by presenting them many career options according to their capabilities and work desires. The counselors motivate the students towards their path of career success.
Majority of the Students nowadays are having an inconsiderate thinking towards their career goals. However, this carelessness can be diminished by providing them proper and considerate guidance of their career by analyzing their potential, but the burning question is that how will the students have their counselors. The solution to this arising problem is to simply arrange career counselors in colleges and universities. Parents should also be aware of their children ’s interest and must not impose their wishes on them. Teachers should also ponder over the fact that their students have different interests from each other and must not compete them all with a specific one, to avoid any inferiority complex.